Jesus’ parable of the vine and the branches is a very fitting one for Mothers’ Day. The relationship of a mother and her unborn child is one of total dependence. Even after birth, a child remains dependent on mom for nourishment, care, shelter, and education. That is a bond we can all relate to.
With this parable, Jesus is telling us of another essential bond in our lives. “I am the vine, you are the branches. Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit, because without me you can do nothing.”
As baptized Christians, we have a bond with Jesus that is even more intimate than a mother has with her child. Just as a mother nourishes the child in her womb with her blood, Jesus nourishes us with his body and blood every time we receive Holy Communion in a state of grace.
This sacrament connects us with Jesus, giving us the potential to deepen our faith and our spiritual well-being. As Jesus points out, this bond enables us to bear much fruit. He cautions us that if we separate ourselves from him, we will wither and die much like a branch does when it is snipped.
On a recent ferry that I barely got on, I ran into a parent I hadn’t seen in awhile. I told him that his presence at Mass was missed. I could sense that he was struggling to justify his absence. Our conversation was cut short before I had the chance to raise the question, “Would life be so difficult if you hadn’t fallen away from practicing your faith?”
I wonder if he and anyone else who has quit coming to Mass have given much thought to that line in the gospel that I don’t like to contemplate. “Anyone who does not remain in me will be thrown out like a branch and wither; people will gather them and throw them into a fire and they will be burned.”
It is easy for us to downplay the importance of Jesus and the sacraments in our lives, not realizing the harm we do to our spiritual well-being and our relationships with others. A good analogy would be our need to exercise often if we want to keep in shape. Failing to do so can cause us to gradually gain weight and develop a life-threatening illness.
Jesus’ intent in sharing this parable isn’t to provide us with a lesson in gardening. Rather, he is telling us how to keep our faith well. Just as a branch can’t survive on its own apart from the vine, our faith can’t survive apart from Jesus. To keep our faith strong, we must remain in him.
So, how do we stay connected to the vine that is Jesus? We do it by giving priority to actively participating in the life of the church. That could mean doing some pruning in our lives. A relevant question we should ponder is, “What things in my life could be cutting me off from God?” One example that comes to mind is the woman who always prayed her rosary while watching TV. She said her prayers all right, but was she really praying? Where was her mind as she said “Hail Mary”? Any prayer is better than none but if we want our faith to become vibrant, we need to give God our undivided attention. Like Jesus said, apart from him, we cannot thrive.
Some branches in our lives that we may need to prune include bigotry, materialism, selfishness, prejudice, and apathy. They prevent us from loving others in deed and in truth as John urges us to in his letter. The same could be said of those self-centered addictions in our lives like alcohol and gambling that distance us from God and others.
Because the notion of pruning hurts, both figuratively and literally, few of us are eager to do much trimming in our lives. Consequently, we find ourselves sprouting branches all over the place that give little direction to our lives or depth to our faith. Like the tree that hasn’t been pruned, we have plenty of branches that bear little fruit. With all the distractions and priorities that fill our lives, we risk overlooking the wisdom of this gospel; “Just as a branch cannot bear fruit on its own unless it remains on the vine, so neither can you unless you remain in me.”
If you ever find your spirituality drooping with little zest, then you need to cut back on those things that are keeping you away from God. Blow the dust off the family bible and read it. I assure you that a half hour spent reading the bible is a better investment of your time than nearly any show on TV would be. It takes more than just coming to weekly Mass to deepen your relationship with God. I am convinced that the less one prays during the week, the more likely one will be tempted to skip Mass and Holy Communion. Sooner or later, you cut yourself off from the vine, becoming a member of that religion known as the fallen away Christian.
The quality of our faith and the fruit our faith bears depends on our willingness to let Jesus impact us through prayer, the sacraments, scripture, and his moral teachings.
Just as any mother would likely say to her child, “Clean your room,” Jesus is telling us to clean our lives of whatever it is that is keeping us apart from him. Look at your branches and ask yourself, “Do they help me to grow in my relationship with God or do they keep me apart from God?” Cutting away our lifeless branches may hurt but doing that will bless us with the rich harvest of a more vibrant and life giving faith.